If u want other people to love u, u must love yourself first. why?

whether or not u want to believe this, if u dont love yourself, no one else can truly love u. certainly u can be in relationship and experiences varieties of emotions similar to love, but if u dont love yourself, if u dont respect yourself i can guarantee u that no one else can really, truly love and respect u either. apa pon kita mesti sayang diri kita dulu. 

In order to love ourselves, we must to accept ourselves dulu. we also must appreciate ourselves first. then baru boleh sayang, terima and hargai orang lain. It is okay if u want to change something from your life, your body, your attitude even your face sekali pon, but dont stop focusing on what's important to your life. 

We are all such unique and complex beings and often dont spend the time or energy looking at ourselves in a deep and in meaningful way. Kalau kita tengok and hayati betul2 diri kita, life kita, we can see we deserve more better than what we have now. Just focus and love ourselves first.